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Around the Parish – December 31, 2023

As we gather together in the warmth of our parish family, I am reminded of the profound beauty and challenge embedded in the concept of the Holy Family. The Holy Family, composed of Mary, Joseph, and Jesus, serves as a timeless model for our earthly families. It is a beacon of love, devotion, and resilience, yet it is essential to recognize that even the Holy Family faced their share of trials.

In our human journey, it’s easy to fall into the trap of perceiving the Holy Family as an unattainable ideal, forgetting that they, too, encountered hardships. Mary and Joseph navigated the uncertainties of an unexpected pregnancy, sought refuge in a humble stable, and fled to Egypt to protect their child. Their experiences echo the very challenges many of our families grapple with today. It is through these struggles that the Holy Family becomes a relatable guide for our own earthly journey.

In embracing the reality that no family is perfect, we find solace and inspiration in the Holy Family’s unwavering commitment to each other and to God. Imperfection does not diminish the value of our earthly families; rather, it underscores the need for compassion, forgiveness, and a shared commitment to growth.

As we reflect on the Holy Family, let us remember that their strength lay not in the absence of challenges but in their response to them. Mary’s fiat, Joseph’s trust in divine guidance, and Jesus’ obedient submission to his earthly parents exemplify virtues we can cultivate in our own lives. It is in striving to embody these virtues that we draw closer to the ideal set by the Holy Family.

Our families are a work in progress. As we celebrate our joys and confront our challenges, let us be mindful of the transformative power of love and faith. In recognizing the imperfections within our families, we create space for grace to flourish and for God’s guiding hand to lead us toward greater unity and holiness.

May the Holy Family be a source of inspiration for our families, encouraging us to navigate the complexities of life with faith, love, and a commitment to grow together. In our imperfection, let us find the grace to mirror the divine qualities exemplified by the Holy Family.

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy



Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas! ¡Feliz Navidad! Joyeux Noël! Frohe Weihnachten! Wesołych Świąt! Buon Natale! חג מולד שמח! (Chag Molad Sameach!) As we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, the King, let us joyfully spread the good news, echoing the words of the angels who heralded His arrival. May the spirit of Christmas fill our hearts with love, peace, and gratitude.

In our parish, we are not just a community; we are a family of believers, and each one of us matters deeply to this family. Together, we share the warmth of God’s love and the joy of this festive season. Whenever we are separated, we find it difficult to move on. Let us pray that we might come together again soon to give thanks to Almighty God for the blessings He has bestowed upon us.

I want to draw your attention to the two Christmas trees in our church adorned with ornaments, each bearing the last name of a family in our parish. These ornaments serve as a visual reminder of our shared journey and unity in prayer. Let us continue to lift one another up in prayer throughout the Christmas season.

While the secular celebration of Christmas may be drawing to a close, our spiritual celebration is just beginning. I encourage everyone to keep the Christmas spirit alive until at least the celebration of the Baptism of the Lord on January 8, 2024. For some of us, the celebration extends all the way to Candlemas on February 2.

Candlemas holds significance as it commemorates the presentation of Jesus at the temple and the purification of Mary. This special day serves as a symbol of the enduring light of Christ that illuminates our lives, dispelling darkness and guiding us forward. Let the observance of Candlemas remind us of the sustaining light that accompanies us on our spiritual journey, leading us with hope and faith.

As we enter the remainder of this Christmas season, my prayer for each one of you is to find peace and joy in abundance. May the Light of Christ shine brightly in your lives, guiding you as we embark on the next phase of our journey together. May 2024 be a year of prosperity and peace for you and your loved ones.

Pax et Bonum,

Fr. Andrew M. Boyd

Around the Parish – December 25, 2023

A Blessed and Merry Christmas to all! As we rejoice in the Christmas season, let our hearts turn to the profound beauty of the Incarnation – the moment when God became flesh in the person of Jesus Christ.

Christmas is not merely a commemoration of a historical event; it’s a celebration of God’s intentional choice to be present among us. The manger in Bethlehem becomes the sacred stage where the divine and human intersect.

In the simplicity of the stable, God’s boundless love takes tangible form. The infant Jesus, born in humility, embodies a radical message: God’s desire to be intimately connected with humanity. The Incarnation reveals a God who doesn’t stand at a distance but enters into the very fabric of our existence.

As we exchange gifts and gather with loved ones, may we recognize the ultimate gift – Jesus’ presence in our lives. His birth is a declaration that God is not a distant observer but an active participant in our joys and struggles.

The significance of Christmas lies not just in the festivities but in the transformative power of God dwelling among us. Jesus’ presence brings light to our darkness, hope to our hearts, and salvation to our souls.

This Christmas, let our celebrations echo the profound truth of Emmanuel – God with us. In our interactions, may we mirror the love and compassion demonstrated by Jesus in his earthly journey. As we reflect on the Incarnation, may our lives become a testament to the ongoing miracle of God’s presence in the world.

May the gift of Jesus’ presence inspire us to be present to one another, sharing the love and grace that flow from the manger in Bethlehem. In doing so, our Christmas celebrations become more than rituals; they become a reflection of the eternal significance of God dwelling among His people.

Wishing you a Christmas season filled with the joy and wonder of the Incarnation.           

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy



Around the Parish – December 24, 2023

As we gather on this fourth Sunday of Advent, a peculiar blend of anticipation fills the air. While it may strike some as unconventional to continue our preparations for Christmas when, according to the calendar, the day itself is imminent, the essence of true Christmas preparation knows no temporal boundaries. Beyond the festive gatherings, the resonating carols that have accompanied us since the ghostly days of October, lies a deeper, enduring call to readiness.

In the spirit of reflection, let us draw wisdom from the whimsical words of the Grinch, who, in his frosty solitude, discovered a profound truth: “Every Who down in Who-ville, the tall and the small, was singing! Without any presents at all! He HADN’T stopped Christmas from coming! IT CAME! Somehow or other, it came just the same!”

This seemingly childlike verse prompts us to ponder the core of Christmas. The Grinch, with his heart two sizes too small, unraveled a timeless message—Christmas transcends material trappings. “What if Christmas,” he mused, “doesn’t come from a store. What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more.”

As our preparations for the festive season reach their culmination, let us acknowledge that our preparations for Eternal Life never cease. Christmas is a poignant reminder that God, in His infinite love, prepared a path for us to attain eternal salvation. The King of the Universe, cloaked in the humility of a newborn, ventured into our world, vulnerable and innocent, to eventually sacrifice Himself for our redemption.

Our earthly preparations for the advent of the King may conclude with Christmas celebrations, but our quest for eternal life persists until our final breath. The message of Christmas resounds clear: continue to prepare your hearts for the King. In moments of jubilation or sorrow, our ongoing preparations for eternal life define the true essence of this season.

As we traverse these final moments of Advent, may joy and peace envelop us. Let the echoes of the Grinch’s revelation guide us, reminding us that the profound meaning of Christmas extends beyond packages, boxes, or bags. It beckons us to prepare our hearts for a celebration that transcends time—a celebration of eternal life ushered in by the birth of our Savior.           

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy



Around the Parish – December 17, 2023

As Christmas falls on a Monday this year, our Advent season is unusually brief. In just one week, we’ll immerse ourselves in the joyful hustle and bustle of Christmas preparations. While many of you may have already adorned your homes with festive decor, as a church family, we will come together to beautifully decorate the church in anticipation of the holiday.

The unique timing of Christmas on a Monday adds an intriguing element to our planning. It’s important to note that fulfilling our obligations requires attending Mass for both the Fourth Sunday of Advent and the Christmas celebration. For example, if you’re inclined to attend two vigil masses, consider joining us on Saturday, December 23, for the Fourth Sunday of Advent, and then returning in the evening on Sunday, December 24, for the Christmas celebration. Alternatively, you can opt for a morning mass on Sunday, December 24, for the Fourth Sunday of Advent, followed by the 9 am service on Christmas Day. A third option is to attend the Sunday morning mass for the Fourth Sunday of Advent and the Sunday evening mass for Christmas. I understand, it’s a lot to keep track of – in many ways, it’s simpler for me! I’ll be present at all the masses and look forward to sharing the joy of the season with each of you.

Here’s a couple of thoughts for your week: If you rearrange the letters in depression, you’ll get
‘I pressed on’ – meaning your current situation is not your final destination. Remember: just like a bow and arrow, when life pulls you back, it’s just preparing to launch you into something great.

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy




Around the Parish – December 10, 2023

The moment we’ve all been waiting for is finally here – today is the BIG day! Join us for the much-anticipated annual Cookie Walk and Soup Sale, 9 am to 12:30 pm. The excitement doesn’t stop there unfolding right after the 11 am mass – we’ll be revealing the lucky winners of the Lottery Trees and the five fabulous prizes for the 300 Club.

But wait, there’s more! As you indulge in the delights of the cookie walk and soup sale, seize the opportunity to secure your tickets for next year’s 300 Club. Your luck awaits – reserve your special number today!

A heartfelt thank you echoes to all the incredible bakers and soup makers who dedicated their time and talents for today’s sale. I can’t help but express my admiration – our parish is truly home to the best bakers in the diocese. To our generous community, thank you once again for making our events extraordinary.

As we revel in the joy of today’s festivities, let’s not forget the upcoming deanery penance services. This Sunday, Beloved Disciple Parish’s penance service starts at 2:00 p.m., followed by our own at 5:00 p.m. Embrace the spirit of Advent by participating in the sacrament of reconciliation, preparing your heart for the joyous celebration of Christmas. Don’t miss this chance for spiritual renewal and reflection.

Here’s a couple of thoughts for your week: If we don’t teach our children to follow Christ, the world will teach them not to. Prayer is asking God to align you with His will, rather than asking Him to be aligned with yours.

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy




Around the Parish – December 3, 2023

Thank you to everyone who donated for the #iGiveCatholic campaign. I hope to include to totals received in the coming weeks. At the time of writing this bulletin, we do not have the total count of all monies received. Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your generosity and support!

This Friday is a Holy Day of Obligation as we celebrate the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary. On this Holy Day of Obligation, our mass schedule is 8:00am and 6:00pm. Following the 6:00pm mass, we will have a holy hour of Eucharistic Adoration and confessions available.

Next Sunday is the Cookie Walk and Soup Sale. If you have cookies or soup to drop off, we ask that you drop them off Friday, 8 am to 6 pm or Saturday, 9 am to 12 noon. Thank you all again for your amazing baking and cooking skills. Our parish most definitely has the best bakers in the entire diocese!

Also next Sunday at the conclusion of the 11:00am mass, we will have our drawings for the lottery trees and our grand prizes for the 300 club. Winner need not be present for the lottery trees, and the winners of the grand prizes will receive their check in the mail later that week. Best of luck to everyone!

The Deanery Advent Penance services begin next Sunday with a penance service at Beloved Disciple at 2:00pm and our parish penance service at 5:00pm. Please make sure to avail yourself of the Sacrament of Reconciliation sometime this Advent. Adoration and Confessions will be offered every Friday during Advent from 6-7pm with the exception of this Friday as mentioned above.

In this weekend’s bulletin you can find the listing of masses for the Fourth Sunday of Advent and Christmas. Being that Christmas is on a Monday, to fulfill the Sunday Obligation and Christmas Obligation, one must attend Mass for Sunday by either going to Mass Saturday night or Sunday Morning, and one must attend Mass for Christmas by either going Sunday night or Monday morning. Sunday morning mass on December 24 does not count for Christmas, and going on Christmas Eve does not count for the Fourth Sunday of Advent.

Here’s a couple of thoughts for your week: Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is a very brave thing to do – even if you stumble a little on your way out the door. Don’t compare your progress with that of others. Everyone needs their own time and speed to travel their own distance. Each day comes bearing gifts. Untie the ribbon.

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy




Around the Parish – November 26, 2023

I pray that each person’s Thanksgiving was brimming with joy, surrounded by the warmth of family and friends. Personally (as usual), I indulged a bit more than intended in a delightful feast. The occasion provided a beautiful opportunity to cherish moments with my mom, brother, his fiancée, and her family.

For the Season of Advent, we will hold a holy hour with Eucharistic Adoration and confessions every Friday from 6:00pm—7:00pm with one exception. On Friday, December 8, the church celebrates the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, the Mother of God. That day is a holy day of obligation, and therefore we will have an evening mass at 6:00pm. Following that mass, we will have adoration and confessions from 7:00pm—8:00pm. Please do take the opportunity to avail yourself of the grace of the sacrament of Reconciliation during the season of Advent.

Posted in church is a flyer of confession times in our deanery for the season of Advent. Our parish penance service is scheduled for Sunday, December 10 at 5:00pm. This is the same day as the Cookie Walk and Soup Sale.

All gifts for the Nursing Home Gift Tree are due back to church next Sunday, December 3. All gifts are asked to be returned in a gift bag and have their tag attached to the bag. Thank you again for your support of our ministry to our neighbors! I know from personal experience with family members in nursing homes how much they appreciate us thinking of them!

#iGiveCatholic is this Tuesday, November 28. A project that we are looking to do is update and upgrade the chairs and tables in our parish conference room. Each new chair costs $50, and we are looking into purchasing at least 50 chairs. Any help you might be able to give to this project would be greatly appreciated. All proceeds from this fundraiser stay completely in our parish. More information can be found in this weekend’s bulletin as well as on our website at:

https://ihmercer.org/igivecatholic

Here’s a couple of thoughts for your week: Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is a very brave thing to do – even if you stumble a little on your way out the door. Don’t compare your progress with that of others. Everyone needs their own time and speed to travel their own distance. Each day comes bearing gifts. Untie the ribbon.

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy



A Blessed and Holy Thanksgiving to you!

My beloved Brothers and Sisters,

As we gather together in the warmth of our faith community, I am filled with immense gratitude and joy for the opportunity to extend a heartfelt Thanksgiving message to each and every one of you. In this season of gratitude, I am reminded of the importance of coming together as a parish family to reflect on the blessings that surround us and to express our deepest thanks for the abundance of God’s love and grace.

Thanksgiving, at its core, is a celebration of gratitude, a time to recognize and appreciate the countless blessings that enrich our lives. It is a moment to pause and reflect on the gifts we have received, both big and small, and to express our gratitude to God for His unwavering love and providence.

In the Catholic tradition, the concept of Thanksgiving is intricately tied to the sacrament of the Eucharist. The word “Eucharist” itself is derived from the Greek word “eucharistia,” which means thanksgiving. The Eucharist, also known as the Holy Communion, is a central and sacred sacrament that holds profound significance in our faith journey. It is a moment of communion with God and with one another, a source of spiritual nourishment, and a powerful expression of gratitude.

The Eucharist is not merely a ritual; it is a profound encounter with the living God. When we participate in the Eucharistic celebration, we are invited to partake in the sacred mystery of Christ’s sacrifice and resurrection. It is a moment when the ordinary elements of bread and wine are transformed into the Body and Blood of Christ, symbolizing the real presence of Jesus among us.

In the act of receiving the Eucharist, we are called to remember and give thanks for the ultimate sacrifice made on our behalf. Jesus, out of His boundless love for us, offered Himself on the cross, and through the Eucharist, we enter into the Paschal mystery, commemorating His death and celebrating His resurrection. The Eucharist is, in essence, the embodiment of thanksgiving, a divine feast where we encounter the profound reality of God’s love and mercy.

As we gather around the altar during our Thanksgiving celebrations, let us reflect on the transformative power of the Eucharist in our lives. It is a sacred banquet that nourishes our souls, strengthens our faith, and unites us as a community. In the act of receiving the Body and Blood of Christ, we are invited to bring our joys, sorrows, and gratitude to the altar, laying them at the feet of our Lord.

Thanksgiving, both in the secular and religious sense, encourages us to cultivate a spirit of gratitude in our daily lives. The Eucharist, as the sacrament of thanksgiving, challenges us to go beyond mere words of appreciation and to embody a posture of gratitude in our actions, relationships, and service to others.

In the spirit of the Eucharist, let us consider the words of St. John Chrysostom, who beautifully expressed the transformative power of gratitude in the Christian life: “When we give thanks to God continually for the blessings we receive, we pray in unison with the angels, since we both thank Him with the angels and praise Him with them.”

This Thanksgiving, let our gratitude extend beyond the walls of our church and permeate every aspect of our lives. As a parish family, we are called to be beacons of God’s love, mercy, and thanksgiving in the world. Our collective gratitude should inspire acts of kindness, generosity, and compassion that reflect the selfless love of Christ.

In the spirit of thanksgiving, let us also remember those in our community who may be experiencing hardship or loneliness during this season. As a parish family, we have the opportunity to reach out with open hearts and hands, embodying the love and compassion exemplified by Christ in the Eucharist.

May this Thanksgiving be a time of deep reflection, genuine gratitude, and renewed commitment to living out the teachings of our faith. Let us come together as a parish family, united by the bonds of love and thanksgiving, and continue to be a source of light and hope in our community.

In conclusion, I extend my sincerest gratitude to each member of our beloved parish. Your presence, prayers, and contributions enrich the tapestry of our faith community, and I am profoundly thankful for the privilege of journeying together in faith.

Wishing you and your loved ones a blessed and joy-filled Thanksgiving. May the spirit of thanksgiving, inspired by the Eucharist, be a guiding force in our lives throughout the coming year.

Pax et Bonum,

Fr. Andy Boyd

Around the Parish – November 19, 2023

With Thanksgiving being this Thursday, our mass schedule will be a bit different this week. We will only have daily masses on Tuesday and Wednesday this week. On Monday, November 20, I will be meeting with the orthopedic surgeon about my foot. I ask of your prayers that I do not need surgery! On Wednesday of this week, I will be headed home to travel with my mom for Thanksgiving at my brothers, so there will be no mass here on Thursday and Friday so that I can celebrate with my family.

For all of our families that might be traveling for the holiday, know of my prayers for you. May you be protected with traveling mercies so that we may all reach our destinations safely and return to our homes again.

Next weekend is Christ the King Sunday which signals to us that Advent is right around the corner. Starting next Sunday, we will list the Christmas Mass Schedule. With Christmas being on a Monday, we are required to attend both mass for the Fourth Sunday of Advent (Dec 23/24) AND for Christmas (Dec 24/25) Mass on Sunday, December 24 in the morning does NOT count for Christmas, and Christmas Eve masses do not count for Sunday Mass.

The Nursing Home Gift Tree is still in our church for our local seniors. If you are able to help spread some Christmas Cheer, we ask that you take a tag from the tree, purchase the gift listed, and return the gift in a gift bag with the tag to church by Sunday, December 3.

#iGiveCatholic this year will be on Tuesday, November 28. A project that we are looking to do is update and upgrade the chairs and tables in our parish conference room. Each new chair costs $50, and we are looking into purchasing at least 50 chairs. Any help you might be able to give to this project would be greatly appreciated. All proceeds from this fundraiser stay completely in our parish. More information can be found in this weekend’s bulletin as well as on our website at:

https://ihmercer.org/igivecatholic

Here’s a couple of thoughts for your week: Great opportunities to help others seldom come; small ones surround us every day. If we magnified our successes as much as we magnified our disappointments, we’d all be much happier.

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy

Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy