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Around the Parish – October 11, 2026

The Invitation

This weekend’s Gospel is about an invitation.

A king prepares a wedding feast and sends word to those who have been invited. Everything is ready. The table is set. The feast is waiting. And yet, many of those invited simply do not come. They are too busy with other things.

I think there is something very familiar about that.

God is constantly inviting us into a deeper relationship with Him. He invites us to prayer. He invites us to the Eucharist. He invites us to serve. He invites us to forgive, to begin again, and to trust Him more deeply.

The problem is usually not that God has stopped inviting us. The problem is that there are so many other things competing for our attention.

Sometimes we need to ask ourselves a very simple question: What invitation from the Lord have I been putting off?

Maybe this is the week to finally say yes.

Our First Extended Adoration

This Friday, October 16, we begin our new monthly period of Eucharistic Adoration.

The Blessed Sacrament will be exposed following the 8:00 AM Mass until 7:00 PM, and this will continue on the third Friday of each month.

Thank you to everyone who has already signed up for an hour. If there are still open times, please consider taking one.

Even if you are not able to commit to a regular hour, everyone is welcome to stop in and spend some time with the Lord.

Pancake Breakfast Next Sunday

The Knights of Columbus Pancake Breakfast is next Sunday, October 18, from 8:30 AM until 12:30 PM in Gallagher Hall.

Come hungry and join us for breakfast and fellowship.

Since the breakfast follows the 8:00 AM Mass, there will be no regular Coffee and Donuts next Sunday.

Respect Life Month

October continues to be Respect Life Month, and I am grateful for the ways our parish makes that commitment concrete through ministries such as Walking with Moms in Need and the Caring Closet.

Respect for life cannot remain only something that we say. It becomes real when we pray, accompany, encourage, and support people who need us.

Please continue to pray throughout this month for a greater respect for every human life.

Divine Mercy Encounter

The next Divine Mercy Encounter will be held November 13–15 at St. Joseph Parish in Erie.

DME is open to anyone beginning in 10th grade, age 15 and older, through the end of life. It is not simply a youth retreat; it is an opportunity for people of every age to step away from everyday life and encounter the mercy of Christ in a deeper way.

If you have never attended, perhaps this is your invitation.

Here are a few thoughts for the week ahead:

Some opportunities only look ordinary because we do not yet know where they will lead. Do not confuse being busy with moving in the right direction. Sometimes the best answer to worry is simply to do the next good thing in front of you. Give people the benefit of the doubt whenever you can. And remember: an open heart often notices blessings that a hurried heart misses.

Pax et Bonum,
Fr. Andy


The Power and Tradition of Mass Intentions

The Mass is considered the greatest prayer of intercession in the Church. This is because it is the perfect offering of Christ to the Father, making present the Paschal Mystery of His death and resurrection. Traditionally, a Priest may be requested to offer a Mass for a specific intention, even if the requester cannot be physically present.

Offering Masses for the Deceased:

Having a Mass offered for a deceased person is an ancient and commendable practice. A Mass is offered to pray for the departed, that they may find peace in heaven. Since each Mass holds infinite value, requesting one or several Masses is of tremendous benefit to the person prayed for, as well as their family, who can take comfort in knowing that their intention is united with the prayers of the Church.

The Mass: Center of Christian Life:

Every Mass is a precious gift from God. It is the center of the Church’s life, known as “the source and summit of the Christian life,” because in the celebration of the Mass, we are brought back to Jesus’ Last Supper, the first Mass. We consciously recall the love of God poured out for us through the life, death, and resurrection of His only Son, Jesus Christ. At each Mass, all the intentions of God’s people, both living and deceased, are included. As Pope Paul VI noted in his motu proprio “Firma in Traditione,” the faithful, moved by an ecclesial and religious sense, join their own sacrifices to the Eucharistic sacrifice, participating more intensely and supporting the Church’s needs, especially its ministers.

Requesting a Mass Intention:

Anyone may request a Mass Intention for a living person, a deceased person, members of a family, or a special intention appropriate to the celebration of the Eucharist, such as World Peace, Vocations, or Respect for Life. The Church allows only one intention per Mass.

Offering a Mass Stipend:

The normal stipend offering for a Mass is $10. However, a Mass Offering can be more or less than the suggested amount, depending on the financial position of the person requesting the Mass. Envelopes for Mass intention requests are available at the entrances of the church. These envelopes can be placed in the collection basket or returned to the parish office. The requester may also ask for a card to be sent to notify someone that a Mass Intention has been requested (one card per intention). Please note that the name of the person(s) requesting the Mass is not announced.

Around the Parish – October 4, 2026

October at IHM

October is here, and there is quite a bit happening around the parish over the next few weeks. I wanted to use this week’s column to highlight a few things and make sure they do not get lost in the shuffle.

Respect Life Month

This weekend we celebrate Respect Life Sunday, which begins our observance of Respect Life Month.

The dignity of human life is not simply an idea that we believe; it is something we are called to live. Here at IHM, we see that in very practical ways through ministries such as Walking with Moms in Need and the Caring Closet, which help us accompany mothers and families who need support.

Throughout this month, I hope we will continue to pray for a greater respect for every human life and also ask how each of us can help make that respect visible through compassion, generosity, and service.

Adoration Sign-Ups Begin

Sign-up sheets are available this weekend for our new monthly period of Eucharistic Adoration.

Beginning Friday, October 16, the Blessed Sacrament will be exposed following the 8:00 AM Mass and remain exposed until 7:00 PM. This will continue on the third Friday of each month.

Our goal is simple: to make sure that someone is always present with the Lord throughout those eleven hours.

Please consider giving the Lord one hour. There are 168 hours in a week; one hour spent quietly before the Blessed Sacrament can have a remarkable effect on the other 167.

OCIA Has Begun

Our first OCIA gathering was this Saturday, October 3.

If you or someone you know has been thinking about becoming Catholic and missed the first meeting, it is not too late. Please reach out to the parish office. We would be very happy to help you begin.

And remember: sometimes the most important thing we can do is simply invite someone.

Pancake Breakfast

Mark your calendar for the Knights of Columbus Pancake Breakfast on Sunday, October 18, from 8:30 AM until 12:30 PM in Gallagher Hall.

Come hungry and enjoy breakfast and some time together as a parish family.

Divine Mercy Encounter

Registration is also open for the next Divine Mercy Encounter, November 13–15 at St. Joseph Parish in Erie.

DME is open to anyone in 10th grade, age 15 or older, through the end of life. It is truly a retreat for people of all ages, not just for young people.

The weekend is a wonderful opportunity to step away from the normal busyness of life, encounter the mercy of God, and spend intentional time with the Lord and with others.

If you have never attended, I encourage you to prayerfully consider making the weekend.

Here are a few thoughts for the week ahead:

Not every good thing needs to be done immediately. Sometimes patience is part of the answer. A few sincere words of encouragement can change someone’s entire day. Do not be so busy looking ahead that you miss something beautiful right in front of you. Gratitude makes ordinary things feel like gifts. And remember: kindness is rarely wasted, even when you never see what comes from it.

Pax et Bonum,
Fr. Andy


The Power and Tradition of Mass Intentions

The Mass is considered the greatest prayer of intercession in the Church. This is because it is the perfect offering of Christ to the Father, making present the Paschal Mystery of His death and resurrection. Traditionally, a Priest may be requested to offer a Mass for a specific intention, even if the requester cannot be physically present.

Offering Masses for the Deceased:

Having a Mass offered for a deceased person is an ancient and commendable practice. A Mass is offered to pray for the departed, that they may find peace in heaven. Since each Mass holds infinite value, requesting one or several Masses is of tremendous benefit to the person prayed for, as well as their family, who can take comfort in knowing that their intention is united with the prayers of the Church.

The Mass: Center of Christian Life:

Every Mass is a precious gift from God. It is the center of the Church’s life, known as “the source and summit of the Christian life,” because in the celebration of the Mass, we are brought back to Jesus’ Last Supper, the first Mass. We consciously recall the love of God poured out for us through the life, death, and resurrection of His only Son, Jesus Christ. At each Mass, all the intentions of God’s people, both living and deceased, are included. As Pope Paul VI noted in his motu proprio “Firma in Traditione,” the faithful, moved by an ecclesial and religious sense, join their own sacrifices to the Eucharistic sacrifice, participating more intensely and supporting the Church’s needs, especially its ministers.

Requesting a Mass Intention:

Anyone may request a Mass Intention for a living person, a deceased person, members of a family, or a special intention appropriate to the celebration of the Eucharist, such as World Peace, Vocations, or Respect for Life. The Church allows only one intention per Mass.

Offering a Mass Stipend:

The normal stipend offering for a Mass is $10. However, a Mass Offering can be more or less than the suggested amount, depending on the financial position of the person requesting the Mass. Envelopes for Mass intention requests are available at the entrances of the church. These envelopes can be placed in the collection basket or returned to the parish office. The requester may also ask for a card to be sent to notify someone that a Mass Intention has been requested (one card per intention). Please note that the name of the person(s) requesting the Mass is not announced.

Around the Parish – September 10, 2023

Another year has gone by, and yet, every year we are always surprised with how fast time goes by. Tomorrow we remember again the attack on America. The remembrance of 9/11 is a solemn occasion that also carries a message of hope and resilience. On that tragic day, our world was shaken to its core, and we witnessed the worst of humanity’s cruelty. However, we also saw the best of humanity emerge in the form of countless acts of courage, compassion, and heroism. Firefighters, police officers, first responders, and ordinary citizens selflessly rushed to help those in need, showing the indomitable spirit of unity in the face of adversity. In the years that have passed, the scars from that day remain, but so does our commitment to never forget the lives lost and the lessons learned. The remembrance of 9/11 reminds us that even in our darkest hours, we can come together as a nation, support one another, and rebuild stronger than before. It is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a pledge to honor the memory of those we lost by continuing to strive for a more peaceful and just world.

On November 10, 11, and 12, The Divine Mercy Encounter Retreat Program will be hosting DME #106. In November of 2008, I participated in TEC 51, which is what DME is the spiritual successor of. This amazing weekend retreat lasts three days at Saint Joseph Church in Erie where participants encounter our Lord through His Invitation, Encounter, and Commissioning. Each day has a different focus: Friday is the Day of Invitation, focusing on how God is inviting us into relationship. Saturday is the Day of Encounter, where we encounter God through the sacraments, Adoration, and others. Sunday is the Day of Commission, where we as a community are empowered to evangelize and share our faith. The weekend includes talks, exposure to different types of prayer, Mass, community, and much more. The weekend runs from 10am on Friday to 5pm on Sunday, and retreat participants stay onsite for the weekend.

I look forward to this special weekend this November as I will be the main priest running the weekend with my home parish pastor, Father James McCormick. I encourage everyone to consider participating in this retreat! For more information visit    https://divinemercyencounter.com

Here are a couple of thoughts for the week ahead: Archabbot Wimmer, the first abbot of Saint Vincent Monastery in Latrobe, PA had a motto of “Forward, always forward, everywhere forward!” This is an excellent motto for the spiritual life. Always look forward to the future with Christ, for He is already there, preparing for us the joys of Heaven.

        Pax et Bonum, Fr. Andy




Divine Mercy Encounter Retreat

DME is a three day retreat program. Each day has a different focus: Friday is the Day of Invitation, focusing on how God is inviting us into relationship. Saturday is the Day of Encounter, where we encounter God through the sacraments, Adoration, and others. Sunday is the Day of Commission, where we as a community are empowered to evangelize and share our faith.

The weekend includes talks, exposure to different types of prayer, Mass, community, and much more. The weekend runs from 10am on Friday to 5pm on Sunday, and retreat participants stay onsite for the weekend.

For more information, feel free to speak with Father Andy about the retreat!

Where are Divine Mercy Encounter retreat weekends held?
DME retreat weekends are held at Saint Joseph Church / Bread of Life Community at 147 West 24th Street, Erie, PA 16502. Retreat participants are expected to stay at the social center for the entire weekend. 

Is there a cost for the DME weekends?
The cost to make the DME weekend is $45. We ask for a $20 deposit to hold your spot on a particular weekend. Please contact the Parish Office if you cannot afford this cost. 

What should I bring with me on a DME weekend?
On the DME weekend, you will be staying over at the parish social center. In addition to the items you’d normally bring on a trip (clothes, pajamas, towels, shampoo, toothbrush, toothpaste, any medication, etc.) you will also want to bring a sleeping bag and pillow. Inflatable mattresses are permitted, although we ask that you bring a single-sized mattress to allow for room in the sleeping area. Cots are available upon request. We also ask that you bring one dress-clothes outfit for a special event on Saturday. 

Am I going to have to share personal stuff that I don’t want to talk about on DME weekends?
There is plenty of time on the weekend for sharing – if you feel comfortable – but you do not have to talk about anything that you don’t want to. No one is going to expect you to answer questions about yourself or your life. You can go as far as you want.

Who will be at a Divine Mercy Encounter Weekend?
The makeup of each Divine Mercy Encounter weekend varies a little, but usually around 30 people make the weekend and around 20 people work the weekend. There are usually around 15 high school aged participants, 5 – 10 college / young adult participants, and up to 8 adult participants making the weekend. At your table will also be two people around your age who have made a Divine Mercy Encounter before who will be there as your table resources to help out. The other people working the retreat include the musician, directors, and spiritual directors.

Will I be able to shower on Divine Mercy Encounter Weekends?
Yes, there are showers available and everyone has a chance to take showers.

Where am I going to be sleeping?
You will be sleeping on the floor of the location where you are making your DME. Participants are encouraged to bring a twin inflatable mattress or floor pad, a sleeping bag, or (when necessary) a cot. Some cots are available for those who need them.

Who can make a DME weekend?
Anyone can participate as long as they are a sophomore in high school and 15 years of age or older.

When is the next retreat?
The NEXT DME Retreat Weekend is scheduled for November 11, 12, & 13, 2022. Register soon!!

TO APPLY TO MAKE THE WEEKEND VISIT:

https://www.divinemercyencounter.com/retreat-application